Recovering From Care Ministry Burnout

Recovering From Care Ministry Burnout

I giggled at that photo above because that represents me at times. I have the most comfy sheets—like blanket sheets. They make me feel relaxed and cozy. And if anyone tries to talk to me, I’m like, “No, can’t you see that my hair is a boundary and prohibiting any...
Can Women Be Called And Function As Pastors?

Can Women Be Called And Function As Pastors?

I’m naturally a peacemaker. At some point, I was a people-pleaser who would sacrifice myself for others’ sake and call it peacemaking. But as I stand firmly in my late 50s, I find a little less stamina for some conversations, debates, and nonsense. Maybe it’s...
Finding Healing After Spiritual Abuse

Finding Healing After Spiritual Abuse

I hosted the Spiritual Abuse Summit and had the privilege of interviewing 15 experts on religious trauma. I also shared my story and what I’ve learned on the journey toward healing. Spiritual abuse is a topic that so often goes unspoken, and yet its impact runs deep....
Finding Biblical Rest in a Restless World

Finding Biblical Rest in a Restless World

Biblical rest can seem elusive but is necessary to understand in a world that applauds hustle. One of my Freedom Coaching clients shared their story about how stuck they felt in life. Nothing was particularly wrong, and life was chugging along. But things were too...
How To Heal From Burnout

How To Heal From Burnout

I wasn’t okay.  A friend said, “I think you’re in burnout.” I had always been an overcomer. I pushed through a heavy ministry workload and was applauded for my resilience. I forgave the worst offenses and carried on with a smile. I waited...
How To Forgive When It Hurts

How To Forgive When It Hurts

How to Forgive When It Hurts I was getting a massage and face down on the table when the therapist said, “Whatever this is, you need to let it go.” I knew immediately what she meant. But how would I stop holding on to the hurt I felt by such a betrayal? I...

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