I did my first Facebook live this week on Single Matters and felt really … FREE!

I thought I’d feel insecure, scared, boring … but I just felt like I was talking to friends.

I’m personally not super active on social media and I’m trying to provide more content, more value and more tools to help people. It’s what I’m supposed to do because it’s “my ministry.”

But, I usually don’t love social media because of the lack of personal interaction.

But I liked doing Facebook Live – it felt like what I was supposed to do.

And the funny part is … I don’t know if I’ll do it again. I don’t know what I’d talk about! (that’s the introvert part of me that overtakes the outgoing part.)

But it did teach me one thing. I love people and the immediate give and receive exchange that happens when we connect.

This month I had tons of fun interactions! Here are some highlights:

  1. I recorded a podcast for Boundless, a ministry of Focus on the Family, that will go up in September.
  2. I presented a webinar for singles called “Finding the One: over at Christian Mingle 
  3. Finished over 75 hours of training and got my official certification as a Life Coach!
  4. I launched the program for singles – From Looking To Loving with a new website!

I might be an overachiever ….

I believe have the power within us to amazing things because of Jesus. We already have the gifts, skills and opportunities to do whatever God has called us to do. We just need to try something new to see if it fits who God created us to be.

Sometimes we know when it just clicks.

We risk missing some opportunities when we don’t believe we are enough. When we don’t believe we have something to talk about. When we compare ourselves (skills, gifts, looks, opportunities) to others and then don’t do anything.

There is no one like you! You are enough right now to do one thing that gets you one step closer to your dream.

One of my dreams is to help singles get married. No joke.

I want to help people FIND THE RIGHT PERSON AND CLOSE THE DEAL WITH VOWS BEFORE GOD! (and sparkly rings)

So I may not do much on social media, I may not create the most eye catching content …. but I do know I was made to help singles get ready to be married.

And I love to interact … for real. Not just on scheduled posts or in articles. (as you can see from my lack of recent blog posts.)

I realize so many of you that read my blog aren’t single … and this may not apply to you … but I’m pretty sure you know someone that IS single and could benefit from the teaching in my program for singles called From Looking To Loving: Find the Breakthrough You Need So You Can Have The Relationship You Want. It starts on August 10th. Enrollment is open now!

You can share the link www.FromLookingToLoving.com. 

I’ll be talking to singles about the 4 things they need to know that keep them from having a healthy relationship and what to do about.  We will offer other bonuses in the private Facebook group. We will cover things like:


  • How to have encounters with God
  • How to pray for your spouse
  • How to overcome limiting beliefs and lies
  • How to breakthrough the fear of rejection
  • How to truly walk in forgiveness
  • How to see yourself as God sees you
  • How to avoid the wrong people
  • And much more …
Seriously the website does a way better job of explaining the program. Check it out at From Looking To Loving.
I hope to see some of you there!

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