Healing From Church Hurt

Healing From Church Hurt

I hate to admit that I have a lot of experience healing from church hurt. Many of these experiences were actually spiritual abuse. Yet, I didn’t know that at the time. For the purpose of this post, I’m going to focus on church hurt, which may not be abuse. Someone...
When You Need Hope For The New Year

When You Need Hope For The New Year

It’s the New Year! For so many people it can feel like a fresh start. You’re ready to go for your dreams and make this year even better than years past. But for others, it brings on timidity and hesitation to have hope because last year didn’t end up...
25 Signs Of Spiritual Abuse

25 Signs Of Spiritual Abuse

I don’t like writing this kind of post. It’s so sad to me that we have to even describe what spiritual abuse looks like. When I first started serving in vocational ministry, I always messed up (or so I thought). So many times, I thought I wasn’t...
My Untold Story Of #MeToo #ChurchToo

My Untold Story Of #MeToo #ChurchToo

I never planned on telling my story.  I have been silent for 13 years about the married pastor who was inappropriate with me. (Written in 2017)Pastor John Czech In light of the Bill Hybels of Willow Creek accusations, my heart is to help the body of Christ find mercy,...
When You’re Struggling With Rejection

When You’re Struggling With Rejection

Rejection—it’s inevitable. Sooner or later, every one of us will experience it. Some of us, more than once. And every time it happens, it hurts. Romantic Relationships. Friendships. Business deals. Social circles. Churches. Before I continue… this post is not about...
When You Hide Your Past Because Of Shame

When You Hide Your Past Because Of Shame

Have you ever felt like you had to hide the details of your past because of shame? The shame that came with getting divorced in Christian circles got so bad that I hid it from the new people I met. (Note: I’ve been divorced for over 25 years.) I moved from Chicagoland...

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