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Why I Couldn’t Love Popular People

Why I Couldn’t Love Popular People

The heart of my ministry has always been to love people well. Before I was a believer I wanted to love people well so they loved me back. After I was a believer ... well, it sadly was the same motivation. At my high school reunion one of the popular girl/cheerleaders...

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What I Dislike About My Online Ministry

What I Dislike About My Online Ministry

If you want to know anything about me, chances are you can find it on the online. Just by doing an internet search you'll find that I'm single. I run a ministry. I speak. I travel. I blog. I have way to many social media profiles. I'm either not interesting enough or...

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Do You Know What You Want?

Do You Know What You Want?

"What do you want?" That is the question God has been asking me since earlier this year. When He first asked me I paused and realized I didn’t know. Months went by and as the question came up again I thought I still didn’t know. God was wooing me into His dreams for...

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What To Do Until You’re Famous

What To Do Until You’re Famous

This post was originally written for Allume.   I’ve worked with many well known and even famous people in my life. I’ve had the privilege to work with some of the greatest known singers and musicians in the world. I’ve also worked with people who want to be famous but...

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The 6th Sense

The 6th Sense

This post was originally written for the Allume blog. I hear God. God hears me. I intentionally go to my quiet time to hear God.  God intentionally draws near to me to speak to me. God promises to speak to me. When He speaks he gives me promises. I wasn’t brought up...

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Finding Freedom From Slavery

Finding Freedom From Slavery

This post was originally written for the Allume blog.  I’d like to tell you a brief story about a young lady named Avery. She worked in the most respected and desired company in the nation. Everyone wanted to work there.  Avery was the ideal employee and co-worker....

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So You Want To Start A Singles Ministry

So You Want To Start A Singles Ministry

I was interviewed by author John Greco or a piece he was working on for Boundless, a ministry of Focus on the Family. He used portions of the interview for that article. The full unpublished interview is below. Why is there a need for young adult/singles ministry—both...

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Questions Singles Ask Themselves

Questions Singles Ask Themselves

All singles should have a Facebook relationship status that says "it's complicated." One day you feel great about being single, and the next you are in the depths of despair. You proudly declare you are content and then secretly wonder what the heck is wrong. Single...

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6 Things Singles Wish They Could Say

6 Things Singles Wish They Could Say

A married friend handed me a magazine article about singleness. She wanted to encourage me by showing me how the season of singleness is a blessing. I was gracious. I said thank you. After reading it, I found a private place so I could vent to God. I didn't even know...

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How To Renew Your Mind

How To Renew Your Mind

I did an interview with Dr. Cheri Toledo earlier this year for her "Power Up Your Mindset Summit: think like a champion, achieve your goals and live a wildly successful life." A lot of wise speakers shared their expertise, and I was honored to bring the piece that...

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6 Things You Need To Communicate Well

6 Things You Need To Communicate Well

I love asking questions. I'm a curious person. I think this is a good quality, because I used to be pretty bossy. (I'm the eldest child, so it came naturally for me.) But now I try to keep my opinion to myself and just ask questions. I just love finding out how people...

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My Interview On Boundless.org About Singles Ministry

My Interview On Boundless.org About Singles Ministry

There have been many times I've gone to God and asked Him how to get the word out about what we are doing through the ministry. Not just what He is doing through me personally but through the many great writers I have contributing at Single Matters. He always reminds...

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Testimony: Believe For More

Testimony: Believe For More

In 2013-2014 I traveled across the United States in what I called the Kingdom Expression Experiment. I documented the trip with video and blogs. I'm on the road again in what I sometimes call my second missionary journey. I hope you enjoy the short stories of people...

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I write about my journey of faith.  Some of the hard stuff and how beautifully God speaks to me through it. You’ll find stories of spiritual abuse to awesome miracles. I write some business tips for Christian Coaches and a whole lot about finding freedom in Christ. 

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